HOW TO STOP BEING EMBARRASSED AT EVERYTHING I DO

HOW TO STOP BEING EMBARRASSED AT EVERYTHING I DO

EMBARRASSMENT

One becomes conscious of presence of people around.  The feeling is there, what people will think about me?  Am I doing right or wrong?

We often find people who are inclined to get embarrassed easily.  For them, it is inevitable nature of their interactions with others.  But the feeling of burden is there and they want to ease the same by some or other effective ways.

Some times they wonder how to stop being embarrassed so easily.

And enjoy the natural process of flourishing, expanding like flowers in the nature.

How to stop being embarrassed at everything I do

HOW TO STOP BEING EMBARRASSED AT EVERYTHING I DO

The more serious thought process make them realize that yes, there is some basic reason. More serious contemplation by them lead to the conclusion that yes, there is answer.  And the answer is obvious. Lack of self confidence.

Lack of self confidence leads to hesitation in every ordinary act of the individual.

As a result one becomes conscious of presence of people around. The feeling of “what people will think about me”” Am I doing right or wrong?” dominates one's mind. As a result one gets embarrassed now and then.

HOW TO STOP BEING EMBARRASSED AT EVERYTHING I DO

What is the practical solution?

Well,  one must take calculated efforts to build self confidence.

For this, continuous process of learning be adopted. One learns out of own experiences. But then in a normal life span how much time one can devote to learn from own experience? One life time will not be enough.

Therefore one has to learn from experiences of others. That is learning from wisdom gained by others from their own life experiences.

HOW TO STOP BEING EMBARRASSED AT EVERYTHING I DO

A lesson learned from experience is wisdom.

And one of the effective way of getting introduced with wisdom of others also is personal interactions with others. But it involves a lot of time and related resources management.

Another effective way is to read quality books depicting quality thoughts and ideas useful for desired transformation in life.

How To Stop Being Embarrassed at Everything I Do

This quality reading helps one build and develop sarasar vivek ie power of discretion which paves the way for achieving transformation of life on the path of spiritual progress.

Reading only is not enough. One has to be aware of power of discretion and significance of its implementation in our life.

Quality reading also enables one to develop awareness of significance of polarities in values like truth and untruth, right and wrong, ethical and unethical, moral and amoral and so on.  This prepares one to make right choice while making decisions in life. 

HOW TO STOP BEING EMBARRASSED AT EVERYTHING I DO

Having this strong awareness, one has full confidence that one is making right and proper choice. This also prepares one to accept the consequences of the own decision making.  There will be no hesitation.

This will give confidence in one's  own judgement and decision making as well as prepares one to face consequences of one's decision making effectively.

And thus, there will be no trace of being embarrassed in day today life.

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