MY ATTITUDE TOWARDS MY LOVED ONES WHEN THEY MAKE ME FEEL SAD

MY ATTITUDE TOWARDS MY LOVED ONES WHEN THEY MAKE ME FEEL SAD

THE NEED TO DO SO

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It is often our experience, and the disappointing one no doubt, that even after being nice to our loved ones,  we are made to feel miserable, sad and disappointed by the same people with their careless attitude.

Philosophically , it is not advisable to resort to tit for tat approach, disappointment, sadness as this attitude leads  to one's own downfall on the spiritual path.

MY ATTITUDE TOWARDS MY LOVED ONES WHEN THEY MAKE ME FEEL SAD

I  have had many such experiences in my life but I treated such occasions as challenging one for me to adhere to my own attitude of being nice to my loved ones  in spite of getting hurt and agitated. And I have successfully overcome on such challenges,albeit at some cost related to my health.

Because having sarasar vivek  ie power of discretion we must be awareof the need  to give importance to good,positive aspects in life.

We must understand the significance of meaning of polarities in values like good and bad, right and wrong, natural and unnatural, justice and injustice, ethical and unethical, healthy and unhealthy, truth and untruth and so on.

 And this awareness leads one to make right and appropriate choices while decision making in life.

Therefore generally I do not allow feeling of getting miserable and sad to overcome me and my attitude.

MY ATTITUDE TOWARDS MY LOVED ONES WHEN THEY MAKE ME FEEL SAD

Then what I do ?

• I try to be aloof from such feelings.
• Listen to the inner voice ie sarasar vivek which is my strongest guide in life.
• I concentrate to maintain my positive attitude and develop the same.
• I am 24 hours aware that it is my decision to look at positive aspects.
• It is my own responsibility to adhere to the positive aspects of every person I interact with.
• Because of my sarasar vivek I am able to make right choices between the polar values in the life.
• Because of this I can make meaningful and significant decisions.
• I am fully prepared to accept the consequences of my own decisions in life. 
• And the restraint.

In fact,this sarasar vivek plays important role in every body's life.

Only we have to be aware and comply it's guidance in totality.

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